Easy Steps to a Better Blow Job By Dr. Earl Sacks When it comes to sex, men generally love fellatio as much as they love the idea of a ménage-a-trois. Unfortunately for men, blow jobs are sometimes as few and far between as the much fantasized-about threesome. Perhaps this is because without the proper tech- niques, giving head can either be like jamming your fingers down your throat to induce vomiting or like eating corn-on-the-cob without removing the strands of corn silk. But all you have to do is follow these five easy steps to a better blow job - and a very happy Mr. Happy. ) A clean penis is a tasty penis. Make sure your partner is fresh and shiny for you - it makes your role more enjoyable and he'll reap the benefits. Getting on your knees in the shower is a sexy move. Lather up your guy, working the suds until he's full and hard. Rinse the sap away, and bon apetit! If your partner trusts you, he might even let you shave away those pesky pubes to eliminate those awkward moments of scraping the entire surface of your mouth with a fingernail, concentrat- ing hard against the gag reflex. The shower scene is perfect for non-swallowers; no worries about where to aim the bullets! (2) Nibble the bits. Tease him. Deliver a barrage of playful kisses all around the target, but withhold. Make him ache for the wet warmth of your mouth. Little love bites in that beautiful dip between the hip and penis will make him writhe. Some gentle restraining is fun at this stage. Kiss the hip on one side of the penis and cross over, hovering above the head long enough for him to think you're going in, and dive to the other hip with a little nip. Give him one hard kiss right on the head and move down the balls, taking one in the lips as if it's an egg yolk you're trying not to break. You get the picture. Prolong his anticipation until he can hardly stand it. The triple-lick schtick. Do not take the penis into your mouth at first. Start by varying your licking styles. Three basic lick types will get you a long way: wide- tongued lollipop licks that start at the balls and end at the head; quick-flick licks at the head (play that banjo string that stretches from the base of the head on the underside of the penis); and slow circling licks around the ridge of the head (yes, that ridge serves more of a purpose than just keeping men from hitting themselves in the forehead while masturbating). G@) 4. The 4-M Support System. Moan, massage, make eye contact, mastur- bate. These four M's will beef up your repertoire. Moan. Give him auditory clues that you're truly loving every sexy minute. The vibrations of the sound will take him to another level of enjoyment physically as well. Massage. Keep your hands busy. Fondle his balls, pump the base of the penis in rhythm with your sucking, dig your fingernails (gently) into his buttocks. The hands are good at maintaining the rhythm during minor housekeeping interruptions like retrieving errant pubic hairs and taking breathers. Make eye contact. Look up at your partner with loving, naughty or hun- gry expressions. He'll more than likely be watching you, and a coy look with an extra long suck will drive him nuts. Masturbate. Although it can be a little like rub- bing your stomach and patting your head at the same time, masturbating while giv- ing head will enhance the experience for both of you. The full-suck fuck. It's time to move into full tilt fellatio. All the foreplay will prime him so that you don't have to suck ‘til you're blue in the face. The finish will come sooner. It's fun to have a popsicle to suck on intermittently to give him a deep freeze, or conversely, a cup of hot tea. Interchanging temperature blasts will = enhance his response, which will in turn enhance your enjoyment, which in turn.... 3 If you're a deep-throat pro, good on yaa. If you're less inclined to take it too far back, re remember to enhance your tongue work with the 4-M support system. $ c \ 8 It's all about rhythm. Pay attention to how your partner's body is moving. = Take your cues from his motion, follow these five easy steps, and you can't go 5 wrong. i 5 Easy Steps toa Better Blow Job By Dr. Earl Sacks ‘When it comes to sex, men generally love fellatio as much as they love the idea of a ménage-a-trois. Unfortunately for men, blow jobs are sometimes as few and far between as the much fantasized-about threesome. Perhaps this is because without the proper tech- niques, giving head can either be like jamming your fingers down your throat to induce vomiting or like eating corn-on-the-cob without removing the strands of corn silk. But all you have to do is follow these five easy steps to a better blow job - and a very happy Mr. Happy. @) eens your partner is fresh and shiny for you - it makes your role more enjoyable and he'll reap the benefits. Getting on your knees in the shower is a sexy move. Lather up your guy, working the suds until he’s full and hard. Rinse the sap away, and bon apetit! If your partner trusts you, he might even let you shave away those pesky pubes to eliminate those awkward moments of scraping the entire surface of your mouth with a fingernail, concentrat- ing hard against the gag reflex. The shower scene is perfect for non-swallowers; no worries about where to aim the bullets! ® Nibble the bits. Tease him. Deliver a barrage of playful kisses all around the target, but withhold. Make him ache for the wet warmth of your mouth. Little love bites in that beautiful dip between the hip and penis will make him writhe. Some gentle restraining is fun at this stage. Kiss the hip on one side of the penis and cross ‘over, hovering above the head long enough for him to think you're going in, and dive to the other hip with a little nip. Give him one hard kiss right on the head and move down the balls, taking one in the lips as if it's an egg yolk you're trying not to break. You get the picture. Prolong his anticipation until he can hardly stand it ©} The triple-lick schtick. Do not take the penis into your mouth at first. Start By Varying your licking styles. Three basic lick types will get you a long way: wide- tongued lollipop licks that start at the balls and end at the head; quick-flick licks at the head (play that banjo string that stretches from the base ofthe head on the underside of the penis); and slow circling licks around the ridge of the head (yes, that ridge serves more of a purpose than just keeping men from hitting themselves in the forehead while masturbating). @ 4.meem sep syten Moa mais mae cna, ar bale. These four M's will beef up your repertoire. Moan. Give him auditory clues that you're truly loving every sexy minute. The vibrations of the sound will take him to another level of enjoyment physically as well. Massage. Keep your hands busy. Fondle his balls, pump the base of the penis in rhythm with your sucking, dig your fingernails (gently) into his buttocks. The hands are good at maintaining the rhythm during minor housekeeping interruptions like retrieving errant pubic hairs and taking breathers. Make eye contact. Look up at your partner with loving, naughty or hun- gry expressions. He'll more than likely be watching you, and a coy look with an extra long suck will drive him nuts. Masturbate. Although it can be a litle like rub- 3 bing your stomach and patting your head at the same time, masturbating while giv- ing head will enhance the experience for both of you. The full-suck fuck. It's time to move into full tilt fellatio. All the foreplay will lime him so that you don't have to suck 'til you're blue in the face. The finish will come sooner. It's fun to have a popsicle to suck on intermittently to give him a deep freeze, or conversely, a cup of hot tea. Interchanging temperature blasts will enhance his response, which will in turn enhance your enjoyment, which in turn. If you're a deep-throat pro, good on ya. If you're less inclined to take it too far back, remember to enhance your tongue work with the 4-M support system. IX It's all about rhythm. Pay attention to how your partner's body is moving. Take your cues from his motion, follow these five easy steps, and you can't go wrong. 2 iustrations by Genevieve Clouthier es